This Is Not The Woman I Married
Her Midlife Crisis and What Her Husband Can Do about It
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If you’re in the “Last-minute men” group, it means; after your wife has already begun an affair with another man (and you didn’t know it), or after she was thinking about- planning divorce(and you didn’t know it), or after she was openly saying that she didn’t love you anymore, or after she was taking the financial security for herself, or after she was working on taking the children away from you, that’s when these “Last minute men” sought my help. They waited till the last minute. Even before the “Last minute men” woke up, there were signs. Below is a list of 21 signs that your wife is changing into somebody you do not want her to be. Take out a pen and check any of the signs you see happening or beginning to happen because she is moving in the wrong direction. That direction is away from you. HAVE YOU LOST HER HEART? 21 signs you are losing your wife’s heart 1. She becomes less affectionate 2. She talks with you less 3. She stops texting as often as she used to 4. She stops calling like she used to 5. She gets more critical…picks on you 6. She smiles and laughs less-acts more serious 7. She looks at you less often 8. She sleeps in another room-often 9. She spends a lot of time on her phone 10. She asks you no questions about your life 11. She goes out -does not say when coming home 12. She gets home at 2 and 3 in the morning 13. She will not talk about who she was with-or lies about it 14. She works hard on losing weight 15. She brings new divorced girlfriends into her life 16. She wears more revealing clothes 17. She wears more make up 18. She fixes her hair when she did not before 19. She does not suggest going to places you used to together 20. She will not say who is on the phone 21. She gets breast augmentation surgery or plans on it If you check off half of this list or more, it means that she is well on her way to falling out of love with you. If you checked half the list, she has momentum in the wrong direction. The more time you stay ignorant, the more this list will grow. Caution! This point might seem obvious, but if you confront her openly about this list, she will flatly deny it and attack you for suggesting it. But I do not want to assume you know this, so here is the warning: Do not confront your wife openly about this list! Confrontation has bad side effects. Instead, I have a better plan for you in this book. My job is to give you the language, so you have a way to explain what is happening and why. By clearly knowing what is happening to her and to you, there is a good chance that you will change the potential result of you and your wife turn into another divorce. This book is your chance to change all that. It’s your early warning! This is the story of how you were “Screwed from Youth” and the reason you don’t have to stay screwed!
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About the Book
Bilotta took 10 years to conduct over 1,000 private interviews with husbands in troubled marriages. In these interviews he uncovered a pattern that verifies the saying "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree". Screwed from Youth demonstrates that if your father reacted in anger, you react in anger. If your dad was tight with money, you're tight with money. If your dad was loved by most people, you’re loved by most, and if your dad volunteered for good causes, you volunteer for good causes as well. Regarding this father pattern from childhood, you will discover here that your father’s treatment of your mother is the way you will treat the woman you marry. Most men are shocked and surprised at that idea and are reluctant to accept it…until their marriage begins to fall apart. This book will help you realize that being Screwed from Youth is NOT a divorce sentence. There is something positive you can do, and you can do it now to make a life changing difference.
About the Author
After what turned out to be an intense forty-year training program supplied by his now deceased wife, Marsha Bilotta, Larry Bilotta launched his effort to reach the world with his idea that it only takes one to heal a marriage. Larry grew up in Chicago, Illinois, born to soft-hearted Italian parents who, through their own parenting challenges, released him from what could have been guidance and training. In this way, he was allowed to pursue the unexplored path of trial and error. In his early experience in the advertising profession as a writer and artist, he discovered his ability to communicate with the simple words of the ad world. This book was written in that style. But it was his forty-year marriage to Marsha that developed the ideas of this book. She made it possible for him to learn under the pressure of her demands to become what she called “responsible and accountable.” These were qualities he was missing as a student of trial and error. Larry’s purpose is to join with the army of aware and awake authors who place their life-changing messages in books that remain to be discovered, because when the student is ready, the teacher appears.