Life is not a dress rehearsal – we are meant to live our life to the fullest; walk it, talk it and share it. Just by picking up this book, you are giving yourself the power to get clear on what you really want to focus your energy on. Power Goals are the way for you to structure your ”wants” and giving yourself the responsibility to follow through. Not until you have the focus set is it possible to reach the target.
It is so important to love yourself unconditionally and put yourself first in every area of life. If you are in an airplane that is about to crash, who will you save first; the child next to you or yourself? Always begin to put the oxygen mask on yourself or else you will not be able to save either of you. There is so much real power within you so love yourself for who you are and make sure that you are the most important person in your life. Every day, look at yourself in the mirror - look yourself in the eyes and say, ”I love you… really.” Utilize this time to reflect on your daily gratitude.
It’s imperative that you find gratitude for all things, even if you don’t feel positive about the situation. Loving yourself is the key to all other life principles. You must truly learn to love everything about yourself. By taking responsibility for your life, finding out and setting your Power Goals accordingly, you will prove that you take yourself seriously and you will then love yourself.
METHOD TAKING YOU TO NEW LEVELS
The Power Goal coaching method is based upon 3 areas: awareness, acceptance and action. These areas include all the steps a person needs to go through in order to get a new level in life, to operate on a new vibration in life.
AWARENESS:
Awareness includes the definition of the starting point. We investigate what areas are included in your life. We set three powerful Power Goals. Here is the recognition that you must take responsibility for your life and the fact that your choices create your future. Recognizing that you want and need a change of your current situation in order to move to a new position in life.
ACCEPTANCE:
Understanding that a change will ‘cost’ you a lot. It can feel like a sacrifice to let go of old paradigms. It takes time to learn new habits, it most probably costs money to start a new career, move houses, take courses, enrol in University, or something else that brings you closer to your Power Goal. Despite this cost you decide that you want to move forward and accept the sacrifice it might involve.
ACTION:
Action is the key to success. It is about transforming great ideas into reality. You need an action plan, with key steps and activities in order to achieve your Power Goal. This is when the hard work begins and self-discipline is crucial, turbulence will be expected and positive attitude is of the utmost importance.
“The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small, manageable tasks and then starting on the first one.”
- Mark Twain
RESPONSIBILITY
”If you want to be successful, you have to take full responsibility for everything you experience in your life. This includes the level of your achievements, the results you produce, the quality of your relationships, the state of your health, your income, your debts, your feelings – everything! This is not easy.”
— Jack Canfield
Make sure you take charge of your own life instead of life steering you. Most people do not take responsibility for their own life and tend to blame their failures or shortcomings on circumstances. Many people take better responsibility for their cars than for themselves, their body or their mind. Make sure to be 100% responsible for yourself, your choices and your actions - at all times.
Have you been conditioned to blame everything that is happening to you that you don’t like on your parents, friends, boss, clients, the weather, lack of money, your spouse, your children or anything else in your environment? Well, it is time to stop…now. You are the only person that can be held accountable for the quality of your life and for everything that applies to it. If you do not take responsibility for yourself and your life you will have to find yourself in the living conditions of others. You have to give up all of your excuses and take total responsibility for your life and your results, which are both successes and failures.
Your responsibility is to always choose the best for yourself. If you are not happy with your life as it is now - do not panic. Then…you are just on a “detour.” You can change everything you want, but do not blame anyone else. Although it is easier to blame people or circumstances, we must realize the problem lies within our own selves.
Taking responsibility is the best way to build good self-confidence and self-esteem. All winners take responsibility and if you want to be a winner then you must take charge of yourself and your life.
• Do you take 100% responsibility for your life, your choices and your actions?
• Do you never blame anyone else or circumstances?
• If you take responsibility you are a rock that you and others can always trust upon.
• Those who take responsibility are part of the winning team.
• Responsibility is always a sought after property in all areas.
• The best thing you can give to your children is to teach them to be accountable for their actions.
Just by buying this book and entering on this journey with me, you have shown that you are willing to stand up for yourself and take responsibility.
The best way to take responsibility for your own life is to give up:
• Blaming others for what is happening to you;
• Complaining;
• Justifying;
• Defending;
• Making excuses.
”I remind myself that I am capable and free, and my success and happiness are really up to me”
— James J. Metcalfe
CHOICES
”Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make. Period.”
— Wayne Dyer
It is you who make your own choices, so be careful with what you choose. All outcomes are because of your old choices, but your power lies within your new ones and it is you who creates your own life by these decisions. You are the screenwriter, director, actor, and even spectator in your own movie…that is life. So be sure about the choices you make so that your movie will have a happy ending. Remember, the choices you make will create your life!