Find Your Friggin' Joy
Discover Missing Links from Ancient Hawaiian Teachings to Clean the Plaque of your Soul and Reach Your Higher Self.
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CHAPTER 2 - SISSIES TURN BACK
I must be blunt. This book is not for “sissies.” Now that may sound judgmental or harsh, but it is said to challenge you at the core level to face what one must face in order to be free. I speak as someone who had to face some of the most painful and debilitating experiences a person must go through: losing a son, losing a fortune, and being completely bed-ridden, unable to walk – a clinical case considered incurable. In order to truly heal my physical disabilities as well as my emotional trauma, I had to take a hard, deep look within myself and see where I had to clear up all negative ties and reform any negative self-perceptions. I had to do some intense research and deep soul searching. Such an inner exploration can be considered scary. A sissy would run away from something scary. This book is not for sissies.
Are you up for the challenge? Can you face any shadows within you in order to be free to find the joy that resides right there where you stand?
If you are unwilling to see what’s clogging the depths of your soul, you will have to look elsewhere. This book won’t be for you. But if you’re sick and tired of doing the same thing over and over and falling in the same hole then I invite you to take a peek at what follows – in these chapters and within the self. I promise, as you do the inner work, and use the tools described within these chapters, you will not only clear what holds you back in life, but also find that friggin’ joy that’s been locked away for so long!
On my path of healing, the first thing I had to accept – as the principles of the great Huna teachings require – is complete responsibility for all areas of my life. As the strict teachings suggest, I was called to be responsible for everything that happened to me in my life. Everything. I was taught to be the CAUSE rather than the EFFECT, for if I were the cause for creating the events of my life – even unconsciously created – then I also could be responsible for un-creating it.
For example, if I was angry while driving my car and someone else cut me off with the same angry disposition, I would see how I drew that person to me because of my anger. Like a magnet, I would draw angry people towards me if I stayed angry. As I studied my own life, I started to see more examples of this in my everyday world. Becoming conscious of this phenomenon was the first step in changing my behavior. For me personally, fear was my biggest magnet. Whatever frightened me would end up right in front of me, especially around the topic of money.
So how did I remove the fear in my life? For one, I faced it. This is the biggest step in dealing with our invisible barriers. After this, I used the techniques outlined in this book to learn how to move right through the illusions that I had built up. This book will describe in detail the steps to move through fear and any other barrier between you and your joy.
Many of us anticipated 2012, the end of the Mayan Calendar and what some prophets claim to be a more heart-centered reality, in a “New World.” In this light, there is a great opportunity to clean out our inner closet from the debris of the past and remove those ancient, stuck, ego-based patterns that no longer serve us or the planet. Without fear, there is only LOVE. Moving forward unafraid unleashes the power of love. I look forward to the day where we can feel SO PRESENT and AUTHENTIC that we’re simply filled with creative ideas and possess the WILL and ENERGY to carry them out.
I don’t claim to know all the answers here, but I do feel an obligation to share my journey and the lessons that transformed me from being a scared, fearful child without a voice to the joyful, confident and grateful woman that I am today. We all need to practice “struggling” until we learn the lessons. Even a caterpillar has to struggle in the cocoon to build up the strength in its wings. And when it’s ready, the caterpillar cannot help but leave the “old house” behind and burst into a beautiful butterfly. I celebrate all of you, as a caterpillar making its way into a butterfly, on your own journey to fulfilling a promise of power and beauty.
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“Belinda Farrell is a courageous woman sharing personal woes so that others may find strength in their own journey. She lights the path of hope, brightens the realm of despair and embraces the act of survival. Cal-Berkeley graduate, Mom,”Snow White,” almost CIA agent, stunt car driver, actor, writer, hot coal walker, Huna teacher, wild dolphin swim guide, she’s a New Millennia Renaissance woman offering good health and holistic healing. Her new book Find Your Friggin’Joy is not for the faint of heart, but a manual for those brave enough to confront their demons, face their feelings, and exalt their potential.”
—Broderick Perkins, Executive Editor at DeadlineNews.com
This book takes you on a journey using Ancient Hawaiian Teachings that invite the reader to take personal responsibility to unplug from the old non-productive stories and step into the frequencies of your Higher Self. Connecting with these frequencies can heal your physical body, bring you back into balance, lighten your load, and fulfill your soul’s purpose. It’s all up to YOU!
When Belinda was forty eight she collapsed with herniated discs and spinal nerve damage. Threatened with paralysis by her medical doctors if she didn’t have surgery, Belinda instead chose to apply the ancient Hawaiian healing practices she had been learning for the past three years which are covered in this book. Her back completely healed including childhood scoliosis.
Belinda retired from stunt car driving and, for fifteen years has been sharing these healing practices with others. She offers Reconnective Healing and Huna in Santa Cruz, Ca. and takes clients to Hawaii to teach Huna and swim with wild spinner dolphins. The dolphins help us to dissolve fear with an open heart expanding our reality through their vibrational tones so that we experience our deepest joy.
About the Author
Belinda Farrell graduated with a BA from the University of California at Berkeley and holds an Elementary Teaching Credential from Cal State Los Angeles. Trained in hypnotherapy, past life regression, NLP, Hawaiian chanting, and ancient Hawaiian healing (Huna), Belinda was also a precision stunt car driver for TV and films.
When Belinda was forty-eight, she collapsed with herniated discs and spinal nerve damage. Threatened with paralysis by her medical doctors if she didn’t have surgery, Belinda instead chose to apply the ancient Hawaiian healing practices she had been learning the previous three years, which are covered in this book. Her back completely healed, including childhood scoliosis.
Belinda retired from stunt car driving and for fifteen years has been sharing these healing practices with others. She offers Reconnective Healing and Huna in Santa Cruz, California, and takes clients to Hawaii to teach Huna and swim with wild spinner dolphins.