The Phoenix Effect

This is not a Tell All book…it is merely one that in time will help you to ask the questions that you should be asking, no matter what age you are right now. Are you not hungry enough for more knowledge on how to improve the quality of your life? Isn’t it time to evolve to the next step that takes you higher…towards your soul’s potential, towards discovering who you really are, why you are here and what do you need to do with your time here on earth? Are you really ready to have all the answers at once? It is about getting ready and understanding that in our imperfections are our learnings. This is a journey towards the Holy Grail - to discovering who you are and why you we here - the power of forgiveness. In discovering this, we come one step closer to achieving the life we want. It is about preserving a heritage and building a legacy, one that you only dream about. What are we really looking for? What answers are we seeking and why are we not hearing them? We do receive the answers, every time we ask questions we do receive answers be it directly or via signs around us. As human beings we have been conditioned to analyse everything that happens in our lives so how far does our Free Will really influence our lives. Are we actually going with our Free Will or following a set of values, pattern or program that has been imbedded in our psyche? Is it our inherited genetic programs of our ancestors or from our teachers or our peers that influences our reactions or behaviours? When does our Free Will actually come into effect? So how do we move ahead? It is possible to become discerning in this aspect. Self-evolution is a journey. It can never be the final destination as there is only one. We are constantly learning, constantly healing, constantly evolving. There are many situations that we go through in our lives and we are subject to wise sayings of suffering that can only make us stronger. Have you asked yourself what is it about joy and happiness that in comparison to the sayings or clichés available to you, equal weakness. It is not the sufferings that we endure but the lessons, the learnings that we receive that make us stronger. What if you could shift your paradigm to the point that the next time a situation arises that puts you out of sync, take yourself out of it mentally, look at it objectively and ask yourself, why and the why not’s. So what is your ultimate dream? How do you see yourself, emotionally, spiritually, physically and materialistically? Start working on removing the limitations that shackle you to your dramas. Our own need to judge each other, to judge ourselves. The judgments of being too tall, too thin, too large, too short, too much work, not enough work, no resources or too many choices. How do we move away from this? Once again, we have to discover the origins of the ‘dark’ matter. We are born with prior knowledge, the knowledge of God. Yet the negative emotions within us sap our energy and block us from manifesting true bliss. So rather than judging ourselves so harshly, let us take the first step to accepting responsibility for our current self and then take action to improving upon ourselves, one step at a time, one day at a time. In order to dream big, you must first learn how thinking small is serving you and what are you really hiding from if you do think big. Do you fear who you may become? Are you afraid of facing the truth that you could have done this a long time ago? That you would be overcome with feelings of remorse and regrets for not starting earlier? Well, that’s alright. You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Yes it is true that if you were self-aware of your learnings at a much earlier stage in your life then your divine mission would have been accelerated but would you have been capable of managing it? As the Universe moves on, so shall you.