The Goddess Effect-Revealed

How Gratitude Can Attract What You Want Gratitude plays a big part in attracting your dream life. Feeling thankful for your blessings attracts more things for you to be thankful for! Even if what you’ve got isn’t much, it can be increased a hundred fold by being thankful for it. In addition, when you show your gratitude to others for something they’ve done for you, they’re more inclined to do even more. Gratitude strengthens the bonds of friendship and increases the loyalty of business associates. Here’s some food for thought: If you can’t feel gratitude for what you’ve got now, will you ever feel it, or will you just want more? Follow these tips to show your gratitude on a daily basis and reap the benefits: 1. Tell others when they make you happy. The need to feel appreciated is one of our basic human needs. Fulfill that need and share the love! A simple “Thank you” can make their day. • Your parents and children love to know when they’ve made you happy. Make it a habit to thank them often. • Letting your significant other know how much you appreciate them and all they do will strengthen your relationship. It can also start a cycle of you both doing nice things for each other because you know how much the other one appreciates it! • Your friends also like to know that they bring value to your life. Every so often, do something special to show your gratitude. • Co-workers, business associates, and clients also like to know they’re appreciated. When they do something for you, be sure to say “Thank you” and let them know how much it means to you. Offer to reciprocate by helping them when they need it, too. • Remember to thank the clerk at the bank, the customer service rep who went out of their way to solve your problem, or the store employee who helped you find what you were looking for. • The more you make it a point to thank those who make your life better, the more you find to be thankful for. After all, you don’t want to be taking things for granted! 2. Keep a gratitude journal. At the end of each day, reflect on all that is good and write it down in your journal. Reading about all the things you’re thankful for can also lift your spirits and motivate you. 3. When you awake, give thanks for the day ahead and all its wonderful possibilities. Before you fall asleep at night, give thanks for the day you just had. Feeling gratitude every day keeps the good things coming. Nothing’s too small to be thankful for. If you find a penny on the ground, be grateful for the gift. Even if you desire greater wealth, be thankful for the paycheck you just got. Gratitude helps you feel fulfilled with your life and it sends out energy with those good vibrations! “If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily.” ~ Gerald Good Over-Deliver on Your Promises Another technique that helps you attract the life you desire is to give more than is expected. When you give more to others (as opposed to taking more), you’re sending out energy that attracts good things back to you. Consistently over-delivering on your promises suggests a mindset of excellence and abundance. Aren’t these some of the important qualities included in your dream life? When you generously give more than you promise, you make others happy. You also feel good about yourself, which strengthens your self-esteem and self-confidence. These are the very traits that you see in anyone who is successful. So by increasing these qualities and traits within yourself, you’re setting yourself up for success in achieving your life’s desires. Use These Mind-Altering Tools to Change Your Life To transform your mindset into one that attracts what you want, it’s necessary to incorporate your desired thoughts into your subconscious. Your mind is like an iceberg, that is, the conscious part of your brain is the top 10% and the hidden 90% is your subconscious. It’s also your subconscious that controls 90% of your actions and virtually all of your ideas and attitudes that affect everything else in your life. In essence, it controls you. There are some simple strategies that allow you to access your subconscious. The goal is to input the ideas and attitudes you desire into your mind on a continual basis so that gradually your mindset changes to what you want. These strategies allow you to mold yourself to your heart’s desire through your subconscious! Follow these tips to make lasting changes to your subconscious so you can attract your desires: Positive Attitude. It is all about believing in the idea that your attitude affects your life and what happens to you. You have to believe in the idea that a positive attitude equals positive results. You have to start looking for proof. It shouldn’t be hard to find, since positive influence is all around. Try it out for yourself. There is no better proof than seeing it firsthand. Take one day and commit to having a positive attitude all day. Take notice of how others react to you. Here are some samples of maintaining a positive attitude: • Upbeat and cheerful • Looks at the glass as half full not half empty • Can find the beauty in anything • Thinks of the good before the bad • Loves life • Avoids negative words • May seem silly at times • Loves to have fun • Never puts others down • Genuinely cares about those around him/her • Looks for ways to make others lives better • Is a giver, not a taker • Does not hurt others • Can see the solution over the problem • Willing to work towards goals There are many ways you can begin to shape yourself into a positive person. Take some of your favorite tips below and put them to use in your life to help you become the positive person you strive to be. Every time you start to find your thoughts drifting to the negative, you have to make a conscious effort to make them positive instead. It helps to train yourself to always find the positive in anything. If you train your thoughts to go to the positive it will go a long way towards keeping a positive attitude. By maintaining a positive attitude and letting it lead you to good, you are allowing your attitude to become your ally. Positive self-talk. Your mind engages itself in a conversation – or rather monologue – the entire time you’re awake. Since you spend all day talking to yourself, why not tell yourself things you want to hear? Keep it positive and good benefits will follow!